Stepping into Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy : Key Ingredients of Change (Paperback)

Foreword , Introduction , Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy: Stepping into Love as an Attachment Process , Introduction to emotionally focused therapy (EFT) , Key ingredients of change on the EFT roadmap , The revolutionary new science of love as an attachment bond , Attachment Emotions and Alarm Bells Ringing: De-Escalating Negative Cycles in Stage 1 of EFT , Assessment and alliance: the attachment experience of Steps 1 and 2 , The tyranny of unheeded attachment fears: unpacking emotion in the de-escalation change event (Steps 3 and 4) , The Role of Emotion in Creating Lasting Change: Reshaping Attachment Bonds in Stage 2 of EFT , Working with emotion to shape the withdrawer re-engagement change event (Steps 5?7) , Working with emotion to shape the blamer softening change event (Steps 5?7) , Integration and Consolidation , Consolidating secure bonds in Stage 3 of EFT (Steps 8 and 9) , Integrating and consolidating the map of EFT , Commonly Experienced Impasses in EFT Therapy , Addictive processes as substitute sources of comfort , Repairing broken bonds: forgiveness and reconciliation with EFT's attachment injury resolution model , The Next Steps , Extending attachment-based EFT to individual therapy , Future steps: you and EFT