Reconcilable Differences: Rebuild Your Relationship by Rediscovering the Partner You Love--Without Losing Yourself (Paperback, 2)

I. The Conflicting Sides of Conflict
1. Three Sides to Every Story
2. ""You're Wrong!"": Relationship Problems as Faults
II. A DEEP Understanding of Conflict: The Third Side of the Story
3. ""How Can You Be That Way?"": Relationship Problems as Differences
4. ""You Know How to Hurt Me"": Relationship Problems as Emotional Sensitivities
5. ""Can't You See I'm Stressed Out?"": Relationship Problems as External Circumstances
6. A Cure Worse Than the Disease: Relationship Problems as Patterns of Communication
III. From Argument to Acceptance
7. The Delicate Balance: Acceptance and Change
8. A Story of Our Own: Acceptance through Understanding
9. Walking in Your Partner's Shoes: Acceptance through Compassion
10. Getting Some Perspective on the Conflict: Acceptance through Tolerant Distance
IV. Deliberate Change through Acceptance
11. The Dilemmas of Deliberate Change
12. Deliberate Change through Mindfulness: Custom-Fitting Change to Suit Your Relationship
13. Deliberate Change through Communication: Taking Good Advice about Talking and Listening with a Mindful Grain of Salt
14. The Silver Bullet of Deliberate Change: Taking Charge of Change Even When Things Go Bad
V. When Acceptance Is Not Enough
15. ""Don't Do That to Me!"": Violence, Verbal Abuse, and Infidelity
16. Calling In the Professionals: Couple and Individual Therapy
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