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Self-Worth
“You started this business all by yourself a year and a half ago, and now you have a staff of 220 people. Remember who did that.” This line, spoken by Ben Whittaker (Robert De Niro) to Jules Ostin (Anne Hathaway) in the film The Intern, carries a powerful message about self-reflection and recognizing one’s own value. In the movie, Jules is the founder of a successful online fashion startup that has grown explosively, putting her in a position many would envy. However, beneath the surface, she struggles with self-doubt due to the pressures of running the company, managing investors, and facing personal challenges. Ben’s simple yet profound words remind her of her achievements and become a turning point for her to regain lost confidence.
This scene goes beyond a character’s personal transform-ation; it conveys an important lesson we often overlook. Modern society moves rapidly, constantly demanding results. In such an environment, people tend to focus on what they haven’t achieved rather than appreciating their accomplishments, leading to self-doubt. But as Ben points out, it’s crucial to look back at what we’ve done and acknowledge our worth. Recognizing our efforts and achievements becomes the foundation for a brighter future.
This awareness of self-worth applies not only to professional success but also to relationships, daily challenges, and personal growth. Many people impose overly high standards on them-selves, becoming their harshest critics, which can diminish self-esteem. However, we need to be more compassionate with ourselves. Acknowledging our efforts and accomplishments doesn’t mean complacency. Instead, by recognizing our value, we gain healthier motivation and renewed energy.
Moreover, having people like Ben who support us is equally important. Positive perspectives from those around us help us rediscover the value we often overlook in ourselves. Ben’s encouragement illustrates the significant impact mentors and supporters can have. Our wort